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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    Just from your previous posts and this current one, I believe that you are what our education system needs. I know that this girl already trusted you and you helped to solidify that trust when you came through for her in getting in touch with her dad (if you could call him that). This is another reason why schools need to be extremely safe places for children where there are not only educators, but people who will be mentors, encouragers, and supporters of these kids.
    I work in education and in counseling, and that is one of the basic tenants of my practice, rapport and connection with the client. If you don't have that, there is not platform on which to build a therapuetic relationship. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Kudos to you man, keep it up!
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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    Sadly, for a large number of kids, the safest place they can be is at school. It's a miracle that some of them can even get to school each day with what goes on in home. For many the only decent meal they get is at school. I've been in this business a long time, and nothing surprises me anymore.

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    And some of us wish to close part of them. See why it might be important to keep schools in each town? How much are the kids worth? Not enough ,I guess.

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    ????? How in the blue hell do you equate this girls situation with consolidation?

    How bout this....If she had the support staff that a larger school could have provided she may not have been in that position......And some want to cut staff and keep building open just because they can't bear to see the end of an era.....See why it might be important to consolidate school resources? How much are the kids worth? Not enough ,I guess.

    There now we both sound similarly insane LOL

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    One of us does. We are equally stubborn. Just delete me. My views have no value. This is a waste of time. Spuds.

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    Spuds, your view has as much value as anybody else, that doesn't make it right though.

    I'm inclined to agree with Counts, I don't see where the two things are really related. Some would say home schooling is the most direct of having someone involved, and that would appear to be the worst case scenario here.

    Look, there have been kids who had a bun life/upbringing as long as there has been kids. I know kids that I went to school with who had parents who never knew where they was. I'm sure that there are some who have had that forever. Dang by that logic, you may have less teachers so you could weed out the bad ones and have teachers who actually try to make a difference, not those who just look at it as a check.

    I think, no matter what anybodys view is, the relation of a dad who is a piece of feces has little to do with consolidation and the constant attempt to relate every topic to it be that for or against is a bit extreme.

    Again, thats my opinion, doesn't mean its right, doesn't mean your wrong, but to take your ball and go home, well that doesn't sound like a real solution.
    What we've got here is failure to communicate. Some men you just can't reach, so you get what we had here last week which is the way he wants it. Well, he gets it.

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    I have to agree with Spuds. The single most important entity to a community/town is its school. (I didn't say "church" because most communities have more than one, if not several!) We've had school closures/consolidation on a limited basis here in Scott County. Go ask the good folks in Fairview what closing their school did to them. Dollars and cents mean nothing when weighed against the quality of life and education provided in a small school environment.
    Didn't want to get off on the consolidation issue, but my man Spuds needed the props.... [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    What Spudsmac was saying is that maybe she would not have been lost in the cracks if at a smaller school. More noticeable. I see where you are coming from this time. Those two are tight Spuds. Pay em no mind. I sure don't!!!!!!!!!! [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/007.gif[/img]

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    Burrhead, you are without a doubt getting dumber by the day (and thats saying something).

    So nobody slips through the cracks at a small school? Funny how we've had quite a few 'crack slippers' at all of the small schools.

    If the resources are not spread through multiple schools, are you saying that you can't have better quality at the one you have? If there are 12 good teachers in the area who really give a crap, and they are spread through the area, you have 2 at each school, maybe you hit them, maybe you don't. If you have the 12 good ones at one school, your odds of getting a good one are better, aren't they?

    I'm not trying to argue consolidation on this, I think this subject was too important to lump in with petty arguments that go back and forth depending on what you think is best.

    What we've got here is failure to communicate. Some men you just can't reach, so you get what we had here last week which is the way he wants it. Well, he gets it.

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    Re: This Really Got To Me

    I may be getting dumber by the day, but I'll never catch you in that department{and that's saying a whole lot}!!!!!!! Sometimes kids feel more comfortable in a smaller environment. You resorting to name calling and character distinguation is really hurtful. I won't sleep a wink tonight. [img]/LDPforum/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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